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Welcome to my site. This is a place that frames my journey through Sexual Abuse. It holds the space for my trauma spectrum, acknowledges those stages, and connects to you who are on a similar path.

My views and experiences may challenge your opinions, or they might just slide right into alignment with them. Either way, this is a learning and healing and connecting place. What I can promise is an authentic look through the lens of trauma and abuse in everyday life.

Look around. Soothe your soul, knowing that you are not alone. Or feed the fire that comes from reclaiming your passion, your worth, and your voice. Then come back frequently.

I’ll be here.

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T.N.’s View: The Jolt

Featured by T.N., posted in Communication, Lens of Survival, Marriage Equality, Men, Sexual Abuse Survivors, sexuality, Women, Women and Sexuality

This new story, T.N.’s View: The Jolt A long tradition in jolting awake, asks why a person stays when abuse, triggers, and trauma are part of the relationship. It is the next part of the series, Relationships: A Battleground of Sexual Trauma and Healing. Jolt takes a snapshot of a reoccurring event and recreates the moment. Here is an … Continue reading T.N.’s View: The Jolt

Andrew’s View: Maybe Tonight will be Different

by T.N., posted in Childhood sexual abuse, Communication, Lens of Survival, Marriage Equality, Men, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Abuse Survivors, sexuality, Women, Women and Sexuality

Good morning! Here is another side of “The Ugly in Us: T.N. and Andrew’s Story.” This story, Andrew’s Side, focuses on relationships and the battleground they can become when sexual trauma is part of past or present experiences: This series tackles the complicated topic of relationships. It comes from both sides of the sexual conflict where sexual … Continue reading Andrew’s View: Maybe Tonight will be Different

The Ugly in Us: T.N. and Andrew’s Story

Featured by T.N., posted in Childhood sexual abuse, Lens of Survival, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Abuse Survivors, Women and Sexuality

Good morning! This story focuses on relationships and the battleground they can become when sexual trauma is part of past or present experiences: This series tackles the complicated topic of relationships. It comes from both sides of the sexual conflict where sexual abuse is (or has been) a part of the story. It’s especially close … Continue reading The Ugly in Us: T.N. and Andrew’s Story

Space Invaders: To Those Who Politely Insist.

Featured by T.N., posted in Childhood sexual abuse, Lens of Survival, Reclaiming Sexuality, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Abuse Survivors, Women and Sexuality

This snapshot addresses those who barge in, knock politely, or cough, right outside my door. https://medium.com/@tnkelley.me/space-invaders-ead14ab65e31 This is the fourth story in a multi-part series called “Lenses: The Shadow of Sexual Abuse.” You can read more here: https://link.medium.com/zheDi5g8uT If you like what you read, like, comment, and share so I know you’re there!

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